Ebook
What would happen if you admitted you weren’t a good
person?
It’s a seemingly crazy question. From priests to
prisoners, nearly everyone thinks they’re morally better than
average. Why change our minds? Why admit the truth about
ourselves?
In his conversational, fun-to-read, and delightfully self-effacing
style, Brant Hansen shows us why we should fight our drive to be
self-righteous: it’s breathtakingly freeing. What’s more, just
admitting that we’re profoundly biased toward ourselves and want
desperately to preserve our “rightness” at all costs even helps us
think better, make better decisions, be better listeners,
and improve our relationships with God and others.
Hansen draws from biblical insight and the work of everyone from
esteemed social psychologists to comedians to make his point: the
sooner we get over ourselves, give up the “I’m good” internal
dialogue, and admit the truth, the sooner we can live a more
lighthearted, fruitful, fun-loving life.
This book is about the freedom of childlike humility. After all, as
Hansen writes, the humble life is truly your best one.
”I’m not a good person."
Seriously, who says that?
Practically everyone, from priests to prisoners, thinks of
themselves as morally better than average. So why change our minds?
What good could possibly come from admitting that most of us are
far more self-righteous than righteous?
In this book, Brant Hansen makes an entertaining and insightful
case that we can find great freedom in admitting we’re not so
wonderful after all. It can help us improve relationships, be
better thinkers and listeners, and even make us more fun to be
around.
In his conversational, fun-to-read, and delightfully self-effacing
style, Hansen draws from biblical insight and the work of everyone
from esteemed social psychologists to comedians to show that the
sooner we get over ourselves and admit the truth, the sooner we’re
free to live a more lighthearted, fruitful, fun-loving life.
Because the humble life is truly your best one.
“Most of the time, the truth is hard for us to hear. But when it
comes with the good-natured humor and crazy-life antics of Brant
Hansen, it is God’s gift to our souls."--Kyle Idleman,
senior pastor of Southeast Christian Church and author of Not a
Fan and Don’t Give Up
"Brant has the rare ability to evoke simultaneous bouts of laughter
and moans of conviction. Fresh, provocative, and highly
entertaining."--Mike Donehey, lead singer of Tenth Avenue
North and author of Finding God’s Life for My
Will
Brant Hansen is a nationally syndicated radio host of The
Brant Hansen Show and an advocate for healing children with
correctible disabilities through CURE International. He’s also a
host of the popular podcast The Brant and Sherri Oddcast and
the author of Unoffendable and Blessed Are the
Misfits.
“the impression I get from Jesus is that the battle against our own self-righteousness is our biggest battle of all.” (Page 12)
“Biblically, the word righteous means approved by God. It’s something God judges as good or right. To be self-righteous, then, simply means we’ve met that standard in our own eyes. As we’ll see, this is very, very important to us and, I believe, animates so much of what we actually do in life.” (Pages 13–14)
“We’re so beset with inherent biases, we need other people desperately. We simply can’t trust what we see, because we lie to ourselves so often and so easily.” (Page 27)
“Scientists call this attitude polarization. Simply put, if we openly, publicly commit to a position, we will entrench ourselves more deeply in that position, even in the face of mounting evidence against us.” (Page 29)
“I’ve learned that Jesus is both terribly dangerous and terribly safe. For the proud, he is the biggest threat imaginable. And for the humble, he is the securest refuge.” (Page 16)