When to Speak Up and When To Shut Up

by Michael D. Sedler

Publisher:

Revell

, 2006

Almost everyone has found themselves in a situation where they don't know if they should bite their tongue or speak their mind. When is silence golden and when is it better to speak up?

When to Speak Up and When to Shut Up offers practical guidelines for people who want to improve their communication skills. It will help readers explore the cost and purpose of silence, how to ask good questions, how to overcome pressure to remain silent, and more. Using biblical and contemporary examples, this book shares important strategies for discerning God's direction, acting on his word, and building better communication within your workplace, church, and home.

From the Back Cover

When is silence golden?
When is it more important to speak from your heart?

Your friend is about to make a disastrous decision. You see problems in your son or daughter's marriage. At work you see a better approach than the one your supervisor suggests. Should you speak up? Or should you keep the peace by staying quiet?

When to Speak Up and When to Shut Up offers practical guidelines for conversations you won't regret. It will help you explore

-the cost and purpose of silence
-why to check motives when talking to friends, family and authorities
-how to ask good questions
-ways to deal with anger and resentment
-how to overcome pressure to remain silent

Using biblical and contemporary examples, this book shares important strategies for building better communication within your workplace, church and home.

"If you've ever wondered when you should bite your tongue and when you should speak your mind, this book is for you. I have personally benefited from Dr. Sedler's advice and know that you will, too. Read this wise book and skillfully navigate your important conversations."--Dr. Les Parrott III

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Contents

Top Highlights

“we need to ask questions, being careful that we have all the information and pertinent facts.” (source)

“Repent and ask forgiveness if you sense that others feel violated” (source)

“First, when we feel a need to speak up, it is helpful to examine our own lives. What type of knowledge base do we have in this area? Are we sharing from a foundation of experience?” (source)

“And fourth, David showed us the key to taking a contrary position without causing a fight. He did not attack the people; instead he stood with them in battle.” (source)

“I have surrounded myself with people who have a strong relationship with God” (source)

Product Details

• Title : When to Speak Up and When To Shut Up
• Author: Sedler, Dr. Michael D.
• Publisher: Revell
• Publication Date: 2006
• ISBN: 9781585583836

About Michael D. Sedler

Updated Bio - April 2006 Michael Sedler (D.Min., Christian Life School of Theology) ministers in churches and provides consultation services to schools and businesses throughout the United States. Michael is the author of Stop the Runaway Conversation and When to Speak Up When to Shut Up and works as an adjunct professor for three universities. He and his wife, Joyce, live in Spokane, Washington.